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Is having a baby solution to problems of married life?

I am living in US and have some issues with my husband and his family.I am totally depended on him.I am pregnant and having a baby of 6 months.Is this true that once a couple has a baby, their problems are resolved ?
8 months ago
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Aristo Bhupal | Aug 16 2011
There are positive cases where the couple has clinched to a solution after having a baby. There cannot be a single solution to each and every problem but still the basic thing you may do is to develop a sense of positivism in yourself. Since you are pregnant for 6 months, you must give birth to this baby, Otherwise there could be serious problems for your health if you decide to abort at this moment. Since raising babies in US especially takes lot of money you really depend a lot upon him that does make some additional pressure on you. Try to adjust, develop more comfort talking on delicate issues like religion, finance and studies, etc. Maintaining your calm and dealing with the issue is the key to finding a solution to such problems. Try to bring clarity in each other's opinions. You should try become a friend to your husband with whom he feels comfortable sharing his problems.This will pave the road to your future talks about other serious topics so you two clearly know each other in a calm manner. Avoid getting irritated and try maintaining your composure at times of difficulties. Hope you get to resolve this matter at the earliest.