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How important is oral sex the first time you sleep together?

My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but before that he was saying to perform oral sex. I don’t have any idea about oral sex and also I don’t want to get embarrassed by asking about the same from him. Please tell me what oral sex is and how it is important while having sex? How important is oral sex the first time you sleep together?

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Renee Cook | Nov 7 2011

I completely understand your concern my friend. Oral sex means stimulation of the genitalia of a partner during sex by the use of mouth, teeth, tongue or throat. It is always a safer option as compared to first time intercourse. You should go for it as it will add an element of innovation and passion in your sex life. If you directly get over intercourse, then it can lead to certain doubts in your mind regarding safety issues. Starting with the oral sex is great to give you a real feel of sex. One thing is that you need to make up your mind regarding the consequences that it will have once you commit the same to your partner. You may enjoy the same when your partner does to you, but it’s really not the same when you have to do the same. At one time only one of the partners will get satisfied and the other will have to keep making efforts for the partner to ejaculate in a safe way. Don’t hesitate as it is a safe means of having sex. You will add an element of fun in your sex life by adding variety to means of satisfaction.