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Loss Of A Child, Dealing With It!

Is there a book available for knowing what to do during the loss of a child? Can anybody really tell how to feel when you lose a child? How hard is it to deal with the death of a child? Does it depend on the child who dies and when he /she died. A miscarriage would not affect as much as a child who has been delivered right? What about someone who loses a child a couple of years after delivery. Are there different ways of dealing with the losses? Can you name the best books please?

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Isaiah Jenkins | Aug 19 2011
<p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 8.0pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; color: #444444; background: white;">The parent-child bond is one of the most meaningful relationships a person will experience. Parents who have lost a child can often feel that a part of them has died.</span> And the pain for losing your child is more after delivery than in miscarriage as in miscarriage you have never seen your baby but after delivery and spending 2 years with you I think there is really a strong bond which has been broke so for sure this pain is more.<span>&nbsp; </span>When any child dies, parents are brooked as their all hopes and dreams that they had for their child is now no more left. So in this situation I think you should make them understand that no one can stop this as this is in god&rsquo;s hand. Try to make their mind that nothing has been spoiled now again you can have your baby and after having new baby you can again fulfill your dreams. Make their mind to destruct from this matter and try to involve them in other things as this will help them to become normal.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><br /></span></p>